24 февраля 2025
Jillian Turecki: 3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You’re Making (Stop Chasing Love That’s Not For You)
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What do you think is the biggest dating mistake people make?
Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t right for you?
In today’s episode, Jay welcomes relationship coach, teacher, and podcast host Jillian Turecki to break down the biggest dating mistakes people make. They dive into why relying too much on dating apps can lead to burnout, how the fear of rejection holds you back, and why being single is often better than staying in the wrong relationship.
Jillian unpacks why we’re drawn to people who don’t want us while ignoring those who do. She explains how past relationship patterns, toxic dynamics, and a false sense of intimacy create cycles that keep us stuck. They also explore the fine line between honesty and oversharing, how to repair trust after dishonesty, and self-reflection exercises to heal after a breakup.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The 3 biggest dating mistakes and how to fix them.
Why relying on dating apps alone can hurt your love life.
How the fear of rejection and loneliness affect attraction.
Why do we chase people who ignore us?
When honesty becomes oversharing in relationships.
How to repair trust and reflect after a breakup.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating or struggled with attraction patterns, this episode will help you break unhealthy cycles and make better choices in love.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty.
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:03 Dating: 3 Biggest Mistakes
05:39 The Fear Of Rejection
09:47 Choice In Love
13:36 The Fear Of Being Alone
14:41 The Attraction Paradox
21:37 It All Begins With You
32:00 Find Other Things Attractive
42:48 Telling The Truth Vs Being Too Honest
46:45 Repair Not Being Truthful In A Relationship
56:30 Choice In Love 2
01:01:10 It's All In Your Head
01:04:52 Reflect With Your Partner
01:09:14 Self Reflection Exercises After A Breakup
01:12:13 Jillian on Final Five
Episode Resources:
Jillian Turecki | It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
Jillian Turecki | Linkedin
Jillian Turecki | Website
Jillian Turecki | YouTube
Jillian Turecki | Instagram
Jillian Turecki | Facebook
Jillian Turecki | Tiktok
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